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Delight. Lightness. Wonder. Love.

I was filled to the brim with it, covering every crack and reaching every corner. And then I realized — this. is. it. 

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I felt so... whole... not because of my efforts at wholeness but because I have God and He has me. (Psalm 23 rings loud: with Him as my Shepherd, I lack nothing.) 

The best I can do for myself is accept and live in His love, especially when mistakes and lack and circumstances scream reasons I can’t. And the best I can do for others, those under my roof and those on this platform, is to extend invitations of His love through my own and through His Word. 

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18 months old and she’s joined the ‘lover of t 18 months old and she’s joined the ‘lover of the slide’ club
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With the help of God, may we strive to become abiding and attentive people instead of distracted and defeated people.
The entire thing is He loved me first. And even wh The entire thing is He loved me first. And even when our surroundings are burning or when all we see is rubble, there is an unseen Kingdom to serve, a Family to be part of, and a powerful Love to give and receive. 

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faith · 03/18/2015

Fresh Start: Praying Before I Speak

Praying Before I Speak | Heartnatured

My best friend is apart of the grammar police. She’s passionate, smart, lovely, and will make a comment when she sees a grammatical error. Hearing her comments every now and then cause me to think about how I can be quite critically observant about words. Was it judgmental, too harsh, hurtful, irrelevant? Was it unnecessary, mean? Then I look inward: What comes out of my mouth?

I read in Proverbs 16:24 that “Pleasant words are a honeycomb; sweet to the taste and health to the body.” There is something marvelous about words that build others up. Words of wisdom, kindness, grace. Words that bless and refresh. Words of truth, words of vulnerability. Words that display the love of Christ. Words that reflect an active relationship with God.

Matthew 12:34 always gets me: “Out of the overflow of the heart, the mouth speaks.” Every time I read that I’m convicted or challenged to take a look at the words I speak, even the attitude behind them. Hallelujah that God is the one that changes my heart, thus changing my words, because if left up to me? Man. Not pleasant I bet.

Me, and you! We’ve been redeemed from the bondage of speak negative words. We can choose life! We have the power inside us to choose grace, to choose kindness. We have the Holy Spirit, who sweetens our speech.

Like Paul instructs in Ephesians to “only speak what is good for building up someone in need, so that it gives grace to those who hear.”

This can be difficult, I’m a poster child for it — in a heightened stress situation, an argument, a moment of exhaustion — but I DO still want to claim the power that lives inside of me to help me speak sweet words. You know, set a guard over my mouth, Lord; keep watch over the door of my lips (Psalm 141:3), that kind of prayer.

Here’s to taking a few extra seconds to pray before I open my mouth.

Can anyone relate?

p.s. still road trip daydreaming…

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Comments

  1. Angie says

    03/18/2015 at 9:36 pm

    So true! Words can either be a pleasing aroma or poison. I am far too often way to quick to speak :-(. Great reminder!

  2. Tayler Morrell says

    03/19/2015 at 4:38 am

    I think we all need a reminder of this sometimes!

  3. Chelsea B.E. says

    03/19/2015 at 12:22 pm

    Amen, Taylor M!

  4. Chelsea B.E. says

    03/19/2015 at 12:22 pm

    You and me both, Angie. Hallelujah for grace, right?

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I apologize in advance if your kids stay up until midnight like I did to finish a book. 😬
We’re at the park, and she’s happily bouncing, We’re at the park, and she’s happily bouncing, amazed by the big trucks driving by, never wanting to stop going down the slide, smiling constantly — and I’m laughing with her, amazed at her joy and think — Is this what God feels like with me as His child? 

Delight. Lightness. Wonder. Love.

I was filled to the brim with it, covering every crack and reaching every corner. And then I realized — this. is. it. 

This is how I operate in the world. 

I felt so... whole... not because of my efforts at wholeness but because I have God and He has me. (Psalm 23 rings loud: with Him as my Shepherd, I lack nothing.) 

The best I can do for myself is accept and live in His love, especially when mistakes and lack and circumstances scream reasons I can’t. And the best I can do for others, those under my roof and those on this platform, is to extend invitations of His love through my own and through His Word. 

If your life has told you He doesn’t want to love you or know you, I’m here to tell that He does. It’s waiting for you, probably even pursuing you... it just takes a Yes of faith. 

Message me if you want to talk about it; I would LOVE to hear your story, no matter how different we are. 

You're not forsaken,
You're not alone
His love is unending
So know it well
Remind your soul,
remind your spirit,
remind your heart
The love of the Father
Know it well
—Kari Jobe
Bless you and thank you for your heart and work, @ Bless you and thank you for your heart and work, @morganharpernichols.
“I told you about my life, and you answered me; “I told you about my life, and you answered me; teach me your statutes. Help me understand the meaning of your precepts so that I can meditate on your wonders. I am weary from grief; strengthen me through your word. Keep me from the way of deceit and graciously give me your instruction. I have chosen the way of truth; I have set your ordinances before me. I cling to your decrees; Lord, do not put me to shame. I pursue the way of your commands, for you broaden my understanding.” Psalms‬ ‭119:26-32 CSB‬‬
18 months old and she’s joined the ‘lover of t 18 months old and she’s joined the ‘lover of the slide’ club
“We must reflect that, when we reach the end of “We must reflect that, when we reach the end of our days, our life experience will equal what we have paid attention to, whether by choice or default. We are at risk, without quite fully realizing it, of living lives that are less our own than we imagine.” William James

With the help of God, may we strive to become abiding and attentive people instead of distracted and defeated people.
The entire thing is He loved me first. And even wh The entire thing is He loved me first. And even when our surroundings are burning or when all we see is rubble, there is an unseen Kingdom to serve, a Family to be part of, and a powerful Love to give and receive. 

Every week it seems I’m inspired by a comment a friend and pastor made years ago — “Don’t be afraid to talk to someone about the truth of Jesus. Think of it as joining a conversation God might already be having with that person.” 

May we be conduits of that strong, courageous, welcoming, comforting, healing, transforming, sustaining, peacemaking, eternal Love. Or as Bernice King said, “Love puts in work.”
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