Quick answer: So. Many. Things. Longer answer: It takes asking better questions. This is a big one for me. John and I were sitting on the couch, month-old Anna asleep across the room and I asked, ‘How are you doing…
5 years of marriage; 5 things I know for sure
Since we will most likely have a 2-3 week old baby on the day of our 5th wedding anniversary, we decided to celebrate a little early. We traveled to Asheville, NC, and stayed in the same bed and breakfast we…
finding my joy in the joy of my husband
It was middle of the work day. I was hit with a big thought, “J shared something with me he was working through the other day, and I haven’t asked him about it.” I confess, I was saddened by my…
California In 48+ Hours
Yes we did! A friend’s wedding and a day at Disneyland, a lot of great food and quality time.
Your Body Matters
Remember my thought spill from a couple of weeks ago? If not, feel free to read it here. Let’s also go ahead and be upfront about the fact that I overthink things. But God is good. Even though that post…
two years married.
“It has made me better loving you… it has made me wiser, and easier, and brighter. I used to want a great many things before, and to be angry that I did not have them. Theoretically, I was satisfied. I…
Why I Think Romance Is More About The Small Things
I went out of town a couple of weekends ago. J was home, eating DiGiorno pizza and tackling projects around the house. We texted back and forth a little bit, but not much. While we are both relatively independent people, and…
Goals and Hindrances Of Good Conversation
Let me paint a mental picture for you… It’s been a busy week, and you’re weary. Weary of the seemingly mundane tasks of life: laundry, dishes, cleaning. And a little frustration is creeping into your heart because your spouse doesn’t…
20 Original Date Ideas
I seem to be all about the list posts these days, haha. J’s birthday is two days before Valentine’s Day, so that means we plan or balance around birthday plans. This year, his birthday and Valentine’s Day book-end a weekend….
The Best Way I Can Love My Spouse
This is long one, guys. Many thoughts. I hope you stick it out with me. First things first: I am relentlessly and unconditionally loved by God, and have all I will ever need in Him. Granted, we all were created…
Five Things To Remember When Desiring Marriage
Oh, the waters of dating and romance. Especially if you love Jesus, dating can be a weighty thing. It’s fun to get to know people, go out on dates, and enjoy the scene, I wholeheartedly agree, girlfriend. But when you…
Recent Thoughts On Marriage
This month will be ten months of marriage for J and I. We’ve learned a great deal but still have long way to go… which is exciting and unknown. A habit that marriage began, and continues, to create in me…